Bars are one of the best places to pick up women. Here women want to have fun and have a great time. A perfect place to mingle, have a few drinks and have a couple of laughs. This is also the place where women actually expect some guy to make a move and try to pick them up. That’s why men have greater chances of picking up women here than anywhere else.
If you would notice, there are just some that really have the gift and ability to pick up women smoother and better. Every gorgeous woman they would talk to will give them their number or better yet, guys can bring these women home. What’s really shocking is most these guys even aren’t that good looking; but still, they manage to get the hottest women in the bar.
The art of picking up women is not rocket science. Almost anyone could do it, especially in bars. Guys just have to know what you should do and shouldn’t do.
Here are some basic do’s and don’ts on how to pick up women in bars:
1.) Always be yourself and be confident. You may have heard this many times before but this actually really works. Women find guys that are comfortable with themselves appealing. So love yourself firs
2.) Always look your best. Let’s face it, to women, looks really do matter. So always stay well groomed and neat. If you think about it, would you speak to someone who has bad breath or doesn’t dress properly?
3.) Always say something interestingly nice about her when you approach. What I mean by “interestingly nice” is by saying something good about her in a very interesting way. First impressions always last. So an interesting introduction could be your way to success in picking that woman.
4.) Make the conversation about her and only talk when necessary. Girls love to talk. They talk about everything; clothes, food, wine, themselves and many other more topics. Guys should try and be great listeners because women like guys that are willing to hear on what they will say. And please guys, listen to what she is saying and make a conversation out of what she is saying. Also, don’t talk too much. You may accidently offend her, insult her or over compliment her. Play it safe for a while and only talk if necessary.
5.) Make her laugh. As I mentioned before, women go to bars to have fun. You will rarely see serious women hanging out here. Guys that could make a girl laugh usually are the ones that end up having the hottest girlfriends. This is because girls love to have fun and laugh. Just remember, don’t crack a joke on just about everything. Your jokes should be timed perfectly; because if you don’t, then she may see you as a clown.
6.) Always know when to leave. You’ve already hit it off with her, what should you do know? When the conversation is at its climax or you feel the conversation is slowly going south, try to leave. And of course, always get her number before leaving. Since you’ve hit it off with her, this isn’t too hard to do.
Your aim is to make a long lasting impression and leave her wanting more. If you leave in the right time, this is what you will have.
Picking up women is certainly hard, there’s no doubt about that. There will always be constant rejections. But don’t be disheartened if these things happen to you. I mean even the best pick up artist have been rejected, but they are the best now because they shook it off and took it as a lesson to improve. Your mind set should be like them too if you want to effectively pick up women. And with these tips above, your chances of picking up a girl in a bar will likely increase.
