5 Pickup Lines for Bars and Clubs

The club and the bar scene may be the perfect place to meet and pick up women. Here, everyone’s having fun and blowing off steam. You will hardly see a serious person in these places. That’s why this is also a great place to use pick up lines to try and pick up women.

Most women in bars and clubs actually look forward for someone to approach and try to pick them up. Other women even will dress glamorously to stand out compared to the other women in that place. So it’s fair to say that some of them will expect men to use pick up lines.

If you think of it, pick up lines are cheezy and pathetic. And some really are outracious, malicious and very offensive. But in the hands of an expert pick up artist it can be deadly. If the lines are delivered with clarity and perfect timing, these lines may just help you get the hottest woman in the bar or club.

Here are some 5 solid pick up lines that you should consider trying:

1.) “Hey.. Your eyes are cute.. Wait, I think the left one is cuter than the right one..”

You may be thinking where a guy’s going with this pick up line? Well, the sole purpose of pick up lines is to break the ice and make women laugh. And this line certainly does that.

2.) “So.. what pick up lines haven’t you heard tonight?”

In just one sentence, you’ve already complimented her and started a conversation. This is what this pick up line does. It starts an interesting conversation and will leave her thinking — “Why did he ask me this?”, “Did he see me with other men?” — that sort of questions.

8 times out of 10, she will answer you. Since you opened up a topic about pick up lines, try now to subtly divert the conversation to intimate topics. I know, it’s not that easy, but with you practice, you will get better at this and transitions will be much smoother and easier. It will be not that much hard to connect pick up lines to romantic things, you just have to the right things to say.

Try and divert the topic to dating, first impressions, and even sex. Just make sure not to talk about yourself too much or talk about your job, education, parents and etc. You should talk about something romantic, such as vacations, candle lit dinners and carriage rides.

3.) “Hi, I’m new in town, and I’m having trouble finding my way around. Could you give me directions to your place?”

You may have heard this pick up line before. Heck, you may have even tried this once. But many have failed to pick up women with this line because of one reason — they do this in a bar or club they usually go. This pick up line will be most effective if you weren’t really from around that place. You may be hitting on someone that has seen you before. This will then make you come off as desperate.

Another idea is to speak and act like a foreigner. Say this line with all the broken English, accent and misplaced words that foreigners have. The woman you will be talking to may just get a kick out of this and laugh. Since you she thinks you don’t know what you’re saying, she won’t get offended and will actually help you out.

4.) “Should we keep flirting across the room or what?”

This is a great pick up line if you’ve established eye contact with a woman. If she looks at your eyes, look at her eyes much longer. This will tell her that you’re not afraid of eye contact. That you’re confident enough to have a staring match with a gorgeous woman.

If she smiles, then you should approach her right away. Walk from side to side while keeping your eyes focused on her. The reason for the side to side walking is so she can’t see you approaching. If you see her looking for you, turning her head left and right then it’s the right time to approach her. Tell her this pick up line to her. You’ll be guaranteed to get a smile from her.

5.) “Hey! How’s it going?”

Many guys memorize long complicated pick up lines. There’s nothing wrong with that. But when you get really nervous, the tendency is you will fumble up your words and will act foolish in front of a woman. If you don’t want to be that guy, then this pick up line is for you.

This is the most common pick up line you’ll ever hear and see. In fact, it’s not a pick up line, it’s a greeting. So you will certainly encounter bad attitudes and bad responses from women when you do this. I mean they’ve maybe heard this a thousand times from different men. So you need to be witty and have good comebacks whenever they something bad or will respond badly to your pick up line.

For example,

You approach her and say “hey, how’s it going?”

After this she looks at you and says something bad. Now what should your response be? Should you just walk away? No! Try and mount a comeback by saying “Wow. Okay. You’re one of those bad girls that my mum told me about. I must avoid you. Goodbye.”. Then you leave.

Here’s another example.

You say “hey? how’s it going?”.

She’ll try and respond and say “Stop. Please. I won’t have sex with you. So stop”.

You say “Whoah. Wait missy. I just said hey and you’re already thinking about sex? Slow down.”

In both these situations, chances are she will go after you and try to explain yourself. Try to take advantage of the situation and use that anger to pick her up. This may be the hard to do, but if you manage to calm her down and make her realize your just a good man trying to meet women. This actually really works and it will certainly give an impression to that woman that will make her think about you more.

Always remember that rejection is normal in picking up women. Don’t get discouraged if you fail with your pick up lines. If you do this and with a little practice, you’ll be better
in picking up women in no time.

There are so many gorgeous women in the world – and wouldn’t it be great if you knew how to approach all of them and have a quick chat?

Unfortunately, lots of guys get pretty anxious when it comes to approaching women and miss out on tons of chances to pick up chicks. But, the good news is that just like everything else in life, how to approach women can be taught! There are three different methods that we use to talk to the ladies, but before we get into the details, here’s something to keep in mind:

Get in the right mindset for chatting with girls

Going up to women and talking to them is mostly in your head. It’s all about your mindset. If you tend to be negative and think “There’s no way she’s going to speak to me, she’s way too hot for me”, then you’re losing the battle before you even start.

As cheesy as it sounds, thinking positive thoughts when you go out is key to getting you in the right mindset for having success with women. So, focus on positive outcomes. Think to yourself: “Hey, I’m gonna go out and chat up a few women. Maybe they’ll be interested in me, maybe they won’t be. At least I get the chance to say a few words to them and get acknowledged.”

Keeping positive thoughts will do a lot to cope with the anxiety and nervousness that come with talking to women you don’t know. However, a little bit of anxiety is perfectly okay. When you talk to a girl for the first time, both you and her get an instant emotional rush – it’s exciting for both of you! Excitement is great because it gets both of your hearts pumping a little bit faster and creates some instant emotional contact between the two of you. So stay positive when you go out and don’t worry too much about killing off all of your nervousness and anxiety.

The Warm Up Before Approaching Women

So now that you’ve got a positive mindset, it’s time to get out and warm yourself up. An athlete doesn’t run out on the field and expect to play a perfect game, does he? Neither should you! When you go out to pull chicks, you need to spend a few minutes warming up your social skills and attitude on the way to the bar, club or where ever. I actually recommend using these warm up tricks whenever you go out: you never know when you’ll run into a gorgeous gal, so get in the habit of preparing yourself for the pull.

To warm up, you walk around and try to make eye contact with some cute girls. You can smile or wink at them if you want or just make some small talk with a store clerk or coffee girl. They don’t need to be the hottest girls or even women that you’re interested in. The point is just to start with the basics and get yourself in the zone.

It sounds simple, but if you do this for a solid 15 – 20 minutes, then you’ll start feeling more confident and be ready to approach the women that you really want. So do it and make it a habit every time you go out in public.

3 Ways to Approach and Talk to Women

Line 1 – The Busy Guy Line

One of my favorite lines to use on a girl is one that sets you up for just a quick conversation and gets straight to the point. It has worked many times for me and if you’re just starting, then it’s a good way to practice because you don’t have to think too hard and it won’t take you more than 1 minute.

First, find a girl who isn’t too busy. She can be hanging around waiting for the bus, window-shopping or checking something on her phone. The key is to find a girl that looks bored with herself: she’s got nothing to do and probably won’t mind it too much if you came up and talked to her.

Next, go up to her and try this line: “Hey, you’re so cute and I had to come over here and say Hi. But listen, I’m really in a hurry and would love it if we could meet again. What’s your number, maybe we can get a coffee later?”

This method has a few good things going for it: first, you give the chick a complement and tell her that she’s cute. Girls like will eat that up. Second, you let her know that you’re in a rush, but want to get to know her. Third, you cut right to it and ask for her number.

What will happen is she’ll be really surprised and flattered by your complement and if you look neat and clean then she’ll probably give you her number. If you want, you can change up the line and ask her for an email instead, but I like to go for the phone number. It’s a quick and painless line that will give you a rush the first few times you try it if you’re not used to approaching random women on the street. So give it a try and then call her in a day or two and set up a date.

Line 2 – The Eye Contact Approach

The next approach is a combination body language and line. It works like this: when you’re out and about, you make eye contact with women around you. Find the one chick that holds her gaze and doesn’t just glance at you and look away.

Next, go up to her and try this: “Hey, I saw you from over there and you seemed interesting, so I wanted to come meet you.” From here, there’s lots of ways you can go: you can straight up ask her name, where’s she’s from, what she’s doing, blablabla. Or, you can go with a playful approach and ask her why she was looking at you like that. She’ll probably react with a surprised “What?!” and from there you can take things where ever you want.

With this second approach, you can also use part of the first line. If you’re having trouble directing the conversation, then just drop in the “hey, you’re cute and I liked talking to you, but I’ve gotta run. Maybe we can finish this some other time? What’s your number?” Try to close the deal and get her digits so you can set things up for later. Sometimes, you’ll try and approach and it’ll be an ideal situation to take her on a quick coffee-date then and there. If you can’t set something up immediately, get her number and move on.

Line 3 – The Surprise Flirt

The third line I like to use can work with outgoing, spunky-kinda chicks, but other girls will just get weirded out by it. However, it’s a fun way to get things rolling and can help you learn how to create and steer a conversation if you’re new to this stuff.

So what you do is find a cute girl, go straight up to her and say “Hey, you look friendly/cool/interesting. Are you?” Chicks usually laugh it off and say “yes, of course I am!”, which you can then use to lead into basic stuff like “what’s your name”, “where are you from”, “what kinds of foods do you like” and so on. It’s a solid approach that works because it gets both of you instantly excited and emotional. You can then use this excitement to create more tension between the two of you or you can drop in line 1, pretend you’re busy, get her number and move on.

I really like this approach because it lets you quickly judge her personality by her reaction to your question. I like the girls who laugh it off or come up with a witty answer. You can have lots of fun with this one, so get out and try it!

What’s Next? Advanced Situational Lines for Approaching Girls

These three pickup lines form the basis for lots of my ways to approach women. As great as they are (and they really do work), they can sometimes get boring if they’re the only three arrows in your quiver. However, they are absolutely the greatest place to start if you’re new to the game.

Once you get comfortable with these three approaches or if you feel theses are too “canned” and predictable, then you’ll want to learn situational approaches. Learning these methods is by-far the greatest way to improve your success rates with girls and be able to pick up women who don’t react well to standard approaches. If you want to get the inside information on pickup lines, inner game and these situational methods, then sign up for my mailing list below and I’ll hook you up with the goodies.